Thursday, March 1, 2012

If at first you don't succeed..... Try, try again. And again.


This is from the same person as my other post titled "If at first you don't succeed." His other email is dated 4 years previous. Some people never give up. At least he's trying I guess....  He really just seems like a manipulative person, don't you think?



Sent:2/13/2012 8:30:10 PM (EST) 
Subject:Re: thanx... 
Message:

Happy Early Valentine's Day!

how was your weekend?

=)
--------------  In Reply To Message Sent:  2/13/2012 5:03:41 PM EST  -------------
Thanks! Happy Valentines to you. The weekend was way too short. But I expect this weekend to be better and longer :) how 'bout you? Any valentines plans?


---------------  In Reply To Message Sent:  2/13/2012 5:17:45 PM EST  --------------

thanx for the message and the valentine's day wish, too.

weekend was restful - got some things done (my big weekend was "superbowl weekend" - fast sunday....)

;-)

this week - no valentine's day plans as of yet.... probably going to be another ordinary day... do we still call it "single awareness day"? or did that "fad" where out?

are you dating anyone right now?

[or do I have a chance to invite you to conference IN PERSON... yep- I'm thinking about going to Utah for General Conference.... do you like to watch it in person ever?]



--------------  In Reply To Message Sent:  2/13/2012 5:26:46 PM EST  --------------
I'm sorry, but do I know you? You don't have a picture so I don't know if we've talked before. I really don't talk about making plans to meet people without a photo sorry. For safety, as well as other reasons.

But to answer your questions, no I'm not dating anyone at the moment and I don't usually go to General Conference in person. It's much easier to stay home and watch it in my pj's although I've seen it live several times.



--------------  In Reply To Message Sent:  2/13/2012 6:53:58 PM EST  --------------
yes, bandy we have met before - yes, in person.... yes - it was in California - Huntington Beach Mid-singles conference.... and yes - after we met, we talked on the phone a couple times - I think you were either dating someone or more interested in a guy in Utah at That time....

I remember even congratulating you on graduating from College, too!

I know you told me your were attending the University at one time.... we've also chatted on here many times....

However ~ about two weeks ago - I took my picture down - took a "little break" from all this "virtual dating"....

I just checked my mailbox today... although I am not planning on putting any pictures back up on here - FOR SECURITY Reasons (same reasons we ALL should be careful - I've been informed that the people who run this website are NOT LDS, they are based in San Fran, CA, and - well- I don't know THEM and so I'd rather not have my pictures all over someone's website that I do not know nor have never met...) - (probably for many of the "Safety issues" and concerns you have, as well.)...

at least you and I have met, Bandy.... perhaps you do not remember...

alas.... I don't need a picture to remember you

I know your name is Bandy.... you are an educated, articulate, beautiful woman (and you've seen my picture dozens of times!)... just because I take my picture down from an internet site - THAT causes concern for you? hmmmm - do you really trust this site and the do you really know the people that run this website? --- just saying - since we both believe in being careful....

and perhaps in a month or two - I will "venture" back on here more frequently than I do right now...

please forgive me for basing my interest in you on our "in-person" encounter/meeting that I remember.... and our real (albeit few) telephone calls... with all the "technology - we've "chatted" and "communicated" more recently via computer and my picture HAS been posted several times (and I have posted several pictures - although my account got hacked into so I have exercised more caution since then)....

nevertheless - i still tire sometimes from the "virtual" aspect of internet communication - so please forgive me for removing my picture for a period of time...

If I choose to attend conference in person this year - it would be great to re-unite and meet up for lunch or something... see if you even remember me or are even interested THIS time...

perhaps even just to get you out of your "monotonous schedule" and/or "utah craziness" that you may or may not be experiencing...

just saying...

please keep the faith - keep in touch... and have a great day, Bandy...

if you'd like to chat more and you'd like some more pictures of me (in case you have forgotten) - please feel free to email me at:

priesthoodholder@*******.com

happy valentine's day, again, Bandy...

~ j


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